Mixed-orientation marriages and relationships that feature couples with variations in their sexuality can be wonderful successful relationships. Bisexual, lesbian, and gay husbands, wives and partners need to be loved and love just as much as anyone else yet sometimes the person we fall in love with and want to spend our life with does not share our same sexual orientation, ideas about gender identity or interests in sexual expression.
Mixed-Orientation Marriage : Pathways to Success is written specifically for couples who are themselves in a mixed orientation marriage and those who counsel them who are interested in a personal narrative about mixed orientation marriage issues and relationship dynamics written from a positive we can do this success perspective . It is written in an informal pull up a chair and chat a spell with a friend who cares style. I include observations and strategies from my personal experience to help overcome some of the challenges that are common in marriages where same sex attraction is discovered later in the relationship. To read online simply follow the chapter list in the table of contents menu.
If you are a straight spouse who has recently discovered your husband is bisexual or you are a bisexual husband who has recently come out to your wife perhaps something here can help you find the strategies needed to make your marriage a success. While our site is most suited for mixed-orientation couples with a bisexual husband a lot of the mixed-orientation relationship dynamics I write about will also be relevant to couples with a gay husband or bisexual wife or lesbian wife or one of the many other variations of mixed orientation marriage.
We provide a positive pathways to success example of how we make our mixed-orientation relationship work to offset all the negative information about mixed-orientation marriages that seems to permeate our society. We are here to provide a voice saying mixed orientation marriages can be fabulous.
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