Mixed-Orientation Marriage: Pathways to Success

Annotated Table of Contents

Preface

  1. Preface

    Author’s introduction and background for writing the series.

Part I: Understanding Mixed-Orientation Marriages

  1. Introduction

    What mixed-orientation marriages are and how to use this series.

  2. Mixed-Orientation Marriage Success

    A hopeful, “we can do this” framing—yes, many couples thrive.

  3. Empathy and Balancing Needs

    Empathy as the cornerstone; practical ways to create win–wins.

  4. Why Does a Bisexual Marry a Straight Spouse?

    How love and orientation can diverge—and what that means for partners.

Part II: Identity and Self-Acceptance

  1. The Bisexual Identity

    Models and variations of bisexuality to help readers locate their lived experience.

  2. Is My Partner Bisexual Enough?

    Labels vs. behavior, fluidity, and focusing on “can this work for us?”

  3. Coming Out

    Coming out to self and others—timing, safety, and compassion for everyone involved.

  4. Openness and Secrecy

    Finding the balance between privacy, honesty, and trust (not just secrets vs. no secrets).

Part III: Relationship Dynamics

  1. The Line in the Sand

    A visual model for meeting at the “I’m happy with that” point—together.

  2. Monogamy and Non-Monogamy

    Understanding the spectrum and negotiating expectations with care.

  3. Sexual Satisfaction in Mixed-Orientation Relationships

    Creative pathways to meet sexual needs—within and beyond monogamy.

  4. Open Marriages and Relationships

    If bringing others in is part of the solution, how to do it thoughtfully and ethically.

  5. Asexuality and Differing Sexual Desires

    When sexual desire is mismatched—or absent—how couples still thrive.

  6. Keeping the Happy in Holidays & Special Events

    Practical tips for navigating family pressures and routine disruptions.

Part IV: Tools for Thriving

  1. Understanding Challenges to Success

    Common obstacles and the strategies couples use to move through them.

  2. Talking About Sexuality & Sexual Health

    Honest conversations, safer sex practices, and shared sexual well-being.

  3. Finding Support

    Peer communities, forums, and professional counseling options.

  4. Positive Thinking and Success

    Harnessing optimism, partnership, and compersion as daily practices.

  5. Living Life on the Pathway to Success

    Beyond crisis: building a sustainable, joyful rhythm together.